Woman Quits Her Job To Breastfeed Her Bodybuilder Boyfriend To Help Him Gain Muscle

Jay Dawson June 9th 2017 Health
We've seen some bizarre stories in our time, but this just about tops the lot. It's a story about love, sure, and a story about real human connections. The video you're going to see, though, is also about something else entirely: a grown woman, breastfeeding a fully grown man. You'll never believe the lengths she's gone to fulfil her dream...
A Bizarre Arrangement
She hasn't told her mom, and she hasn't told anyone else except for a handful of friends. Jennifer Mulford, a 36-year-old single mother, has a dirty little secret: she's decided to breastfeed her 36-year-old boyfriend, every two hours, every day of the week. It's a truly weird arrangement, but Jennifer calls it a "magical experience". Does she know something that we don't?
This "magical experience" has turned Jennifer's life upside-down. She's had to quit her job as a bartender just to keep abreast (sorry) of the 12-times-daily nipple-sucking sessions. She's sleep deprived, her boobs are sore, and her sex life has fallen apart. In other words, she's struggling just as much as a new mother would. The only difference is that her newborn baby is actually a hairy bodybuilder. Not only that, he's loving every minute of it.
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All About Breastfeeding
So what about the science of breastfeeding? How hard is it on the mother, exactly? Although it may seem as simple as squirting a bit of milk out of a nipple, breastfeeding is actually an incredibly complicated bodily process. A cocktail of hormones during and after pregnancy control the flow, production of milk, and growth of the breasts, and require precise levels to operate successfully. The system is so complex and intelligent, in fact, that a breast often produces milk simply in response to the cry of a newborn child.
It's incredibly hard on the mother, too. All those hormones play havoc with other parts of the body, causing tiredness, stress, and irritation. With newborns requiring up to half an hour of breastfeeding, every two hours, nipples and breasts can quickly become sore and chafed. It may be a beautiful connection between a mother and a baby, but it's sure as hell not an easy one.
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The Science Behind The Movement
As truly messed-up as this whole thing might seem, there's actually a name - and a movement - behind Jennifer's new lifestyle choice. It's called an Adult Breastfeeding Relationship, and it's really a real real-life thing. Really. The idea is that breastfeeding between two adults (hopefully consenting) fosters a relationship, or emotional connection, similar to that of a mother and her new baby.
In fact, the science seems to back it up, at least on the mother's side. The hormones produced during the breastfeeding phase do affect the brain chemistry and emotions of the mother, and both her body and mind do become attuned to the small (or big) thing attached to her breast. On the receiving end, breast milk does contain an incredible and optimal array of enzymes and proteins that traditionally improve a baby's health, immune system, and growth. Though it remains to be seen whether it has the same effect on adults.
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Who Is She?
Let's talk a little about Jennifer Mulford, the woman who's decided to take her life down this strange and (some would say) twisted path. 36 years old, she had her first child when she was 16, 20 years ago. It was a time she remembers fondly, especially the breastfeeding part of it. "I can still remember the connection I felt with her as I held her and she fed. It's something I will never forget," she says.
From Atlanta, Georgia, Jennifer got into the idea of an Adult Breastfeeding Relationship (ABR) when she stumbled across a website one day loudly extolling its virtues. She knew instantly that it was the right thing for her. Single and hating it, she wanted that bond that could be formed between two people. Not only that, "I have always enjoyed my breasts being touched during sex more than anything else so I knew I would enjoy it."
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That's One Lucky Guy
The problem was, of course, that she was single. She looked everywhere for a man who would enter into this arrangement with her, but nothing worked out. She turned to Craigslist, but the same thing happened. She put messages on the ABR forums, but still nothing. It wasn't until she started chatting to an old childhood sweetheart, Brad Leeson, that she realized she had found her man. He was immediately open to the idea.
"It was like a light switched flicked in his head. I could tell from his voice that he was curious and excited." Brad is a bodybuilder, and although he's your typical jock alpha male outside the home, apparently away from the public eye, he's really into this whole pretending to be like a baby thing. "This relationship lets him put his guard down, be submissive and allow himself to be loved 100 per cent," Jennifer says.
There's Benefits For Him, Too
It also lets him get really buff. The proteins inside breastmilk are obviously designed for optimal growth of a baby, so for an adult male, the proteins will really boost his muscles and should get him ripped in no time. And with Jennifer not having a job anymore, he's basically got this stuff on tap. Every two hours, he can go straight to the source for a cost-free protein shake.
In the video you're about to see, Jennifer explains the benefits for her as well. She calls the connection they have "wonderful", and says that no matter what happens to her during the day, it always makes her feel peaceful and relaxed to have her man latched on to her nipple. Brad would love to do it in public, but Jennifer is hesitant about showing off that side of their relationship to the world. "I'll never say never," she says, "but I love the time we spend nursing alone. It's our time away from the rest of the world and I look forward to every feed."
It's Not Going To Work Just Yet
There is just one teeny-tiny problem in all this, and that's that Jennifer doesn't actually have any milk to give right now. Since she gave birth to her daughter 20 years ago, her breasts' supply has long since dried up. For all their talk about this "magical" connection, Brad, for the moment, is just sucking on air.
According to the ABR advocates - and maybe even science, we don't know - in a couple of months, Jennifer's milk supply will flow again. If she keeps on trying, and Brad keeps on sucking, every two hours, eventually her body will get the message and it'll start producing as if she had just had a baby. Alongside supplements like the appropriately named Mother's Milk Tea, a herbal pill called Lactiful, and oatmeal and flax seeds, Jennifer's hoping the all this dry feeding will soon turn into a fountain of youth.
How It's Working Out
You'll get a better idea of Jennifer's and Brad's reaction to these unusual circumstances from the following video, but for now we can pretty confidently say that they're enjoying themselves. Although not having a job would be pretty great news for anyone, whether or not they're breastfeeding their boyfriend.
That's not to say that they don't have their problems during this milk festival. Just like a new mother, Jennifer's breasts have gotten pretty sore, pretty quickly. Their sleep is disrupted by their two-hourly schedule. "Nights have been a struggle because Brad sleeps so peacefully but we manage to cope - until he falls asleep latched onto me, which is beautiful." Beautiful, but very exhausting. Still, both Jennifer and Brad seem very upbeat about their journey, and it really does look like it'll work out for them.
It's Not Just About Sex
Now, any red-blooded male in the room will think that while this does all sound a bit wrong, it does also sound pretty sexy. Sucking on your partner's boobs is kinky, right? Well, according to Jennifer, that's not actually what it's all about. "It's been difficult to distinguish the difference between nurturing and sex," Jennifer explained. "Although it's so beautiful and peaceful it's also erotic. It's been hard to get through the first few nursing sessions without being tempted to have sex, but each time it's getting easier."
Which, let's be honest, is pretty damned confusing. Isn't sex an emotional connection too? Wouldn't combining both of these activities be the ultimate "magical" connection? Then again, having sex with someone who just fed on your boob would make Freud's head explode, so maybe it's all a bit too weird.
The Truth From Their Lips
If you're still not convinced by their truly bizarre story, it's time to hear from the couple themselves. In this video, you're going to see exactly what's going through their minds - and whether they're telling the truth about how much fun they're having. "This is a lifestyle we have chosen," Jennifer says. "We look forward to years from now still needing and wanting each other."
Which, to be fair, is the same sentiment found in any long-term relationship. But is all this breastfeeding really helping things along? Watch this insane story and find out for yourself. And what do you think about it all? Is it something you would try one day, or do you find the whole thing a little bit sickening? What if someone you loved asked you out of the blue to do it? Should we all just live and let live?
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50 Extraordinary Women You Won't Believe Actually Exist

Luke Chase May 25th 2016 Entertainment
It's likely that the women in your day to day life are pretty "normal" in appearance. So when you see someone whose appearance differs from what you expect it to be, it can be kind of a shock. The ladies in the following slideshow are definitely far from average. Some of these women spent thousands of dollars on plastic surgery, tattoos, or body piercings. Others are born with strange birth defects such as excessive facial hair, a gigantic butt or even an 8 inch tongue. See for yourself!
Lauren Williams: 4 Foot Long Legs
Lauren Williams has the longest-known legs in the United States, with her eye-catching limbs measuring an incredible 49 inches from hip to heel. Lauren's height and long-legged genes can be attributed to her family as her father, mother and twin sisters are all 6ft or taller. She has US size 11 feet (UK size 10), and revealed that she can find it tricky to buy clothes that fit. When modelling, single Lauren - who has worked on campaigns for global brands such as Nike - does everything from sports and fitness to high fashion and swimwear.
Having played volleyball in college, as well as being extremely active, Lauren also enjoys shooting sporty campaigns. As well as modelling, Lauren works as an educator at a children's museum in Houston and enjoys travelling. When out and about, her striking looks and long limbs mean she gets comments about her legs on a daily basis.
Pixee Fox: Dangerously Small Waist
Swedish born Pixee Fox had already spent more than $80,000 on plastic surgery attempting to sculpt the perfect hourglass figure. But now she has taken her obsession even further by having 6 of her lower ribs removed - so she can shrink her waist to a record-breaking 14 inches. Pixee, from Sweden, said: "People often come up to me and say, "don't take this the wrong way, but you look like a cartoon" - but for me that's a compliment, that's what I want to achieve.
With 6 of her lower ribs removed, Pixee's lower internal organs, including the liver, have lost some of their natural protection - but she isn't worried. She said: "Before if I was in a car crash I would normally break my ribs. If that happened now I'm probably going to break my spleen instead. In total she has had four rhinoplasties costing $14,000; four breast augmentations of 200cc, 525cc, 800cc and 1400cc costing $28,500; two rounds of liposuction at $5,000; two upper eyelid surgeries at $6,000; a labiaplasty costing $4,000; a Brazilian butt lift at $9,000 and cool-sculpting, cheek injections, and lip injections at about $12,000.
Bethany Hamilton: One Armed Pro Surfer
Bethany Meilani Hamilton-Dirks is an American professional surfer who survived a 2003 shark attack in which her left arm was bitten off, but ultimately returned to-and was victorious in-professional surfing. On October 31, 2003 Hamilton, aged 13 at the time, went for a morning surf along Tunnels Beach, Kauai, with best friend Alana Blanchard, Alana's father, Holt, and brother Byron. Around 7:30 a.m., with numerous turtles in the area, she was lying on her surfboard with her left arm dangling in the water, when a 14-foot tiger shark attacked her, severing her left arm just below the shoulder.
Despite the trauma of the incident, Hamilton was determined to return to surfing. Three weeks after the incident, she returned to her board. Initially, she adopted a custom-made board that was longer and slightly thicker than standard and had a handle for her right arm, making it easier to paddle, and she learned to kick more to make up for the loss of her left arm. After teaching herself to surf with one arm, on January 10, 2004, she entered a major competition. She now uses standard competitive performance short-boards. The broken surfboard that Hamilton was riding during the attack is on display at the California Surf Museum
Mayra Hills: World's Largest Fake Breasts
Mayra Hills - also known as Beshine - measures at 59-28-36 and says she's the proud owner of the world's largest fake breasts. And it's not hard to believe her claim to fame, considering each of her breasts have 10,000 cc of saline implants and weigh 20 pounds a piece! As you can imagine, it's difficult for Beshine, who wears a size 32Z bra, to find clothes that fit, so the German-born woman has a lot of her items custom-made.
But bra shopping isn't her only woe. She can no longer tie her own shoes and has run into trouble when she's knocked things over with her chest - but it appears she's satisfied with her body, troubles and all. "Some people maybe think the sheer size of my t-ts bring too many handicaps in my everyday life, but hey, having big boob problems is amazing," she wrote on her blog.
Anastasiya Shpagina: Real Life Anime Girl
It's official, this real-life anime trend has gotten completely out of hand. Hardly a day goes by that we don't stumble upon some photos of girls going to any lengths in order to look like real live anime characters. Today's example, Anastasiya Shpagina, an Ukrainian girl who has even taken a Japanese name - Fukkacumi. 19-year-old Anastasiya (Nastya) Shpagina has been called "the new Barbie" by national news outlets, but she later revealed she's striving to become a real-life Japanese anime character, not a doll. She even posted "I am not like a doll, a doll is like me."
Apparently, Nastya has been passionate about makeup even as a young child, always experimenting with it in the mirror. Over time she also developed a thing for Japanese cartoons and it was only a matter of time before she started using her make-up artist skills to transform herself into a real-life anime girl. But just putting on makeup wasn't enough to attain that coveted look, so she decided to lose weight in order to seem more genuine. At 1.58-meters-tall, Anastasiya weighs just 39 kilos and is trying to lose one more in order to look just right.
Chanel Tapper: World's Longest Tongue
The longest female tongue measures 9.75 cm (3.8 in) from the tip to the middle of lip and was achieved by Chanel Tappe on 29 September 2010. Chanel, from Houston, US, shot to fame aged 13 when she was spotted sticking out her monster tongue in a YouTube video. In September Guinness invited Chanel to Los Angeles where they measured her tongue and she narrowly beat two other female contenders to the record.
She said: "I have always been silly and goofy. I love sticking my tongue out at people. I started doing that back in school. I've never had a problem with having a long tongue, it's just fun." Chanel now has set her sights set on Hollywood after finishing her studies. She said: "I'd love to be in a movie. I'm certainly pretty dramatic, so I think I could have the acting gift. "Really, I'd love to meet Adam Sandler, he's my favorite."
Sarah Massey: World's Largest Butt
Sarah Massey would be just another 33-year-old mother-of-two from Chicago - if it weren't for the fact that she also happens to have the world's biggest butt. Though not officially recognized by the prudes at Guinness, Massey's massive 7-foot wide keister requires a pair of 10XL trousers that would comfortably fit all of the Kardashian sisters combined.
Massey insists the condition that resulted in her museum-sized bubble butt is hereditary - "there's nothing I can do about it," she says - but that her love of ice cream certainly contributed to its maintenance. Massey would still like to lose some weight, but says she now has a new-found appreciation for her natural assets, and fervently defends them against anyone who calls them fake. "Some people can't believe one person can have this much butt," she told Barcroft. "Because I've got a relatively small frame on top they say, 'that can't be real.' I carry this weight with me all the time, everywhere I go, it's definitely not fake. Big booties are just in my blood."
Zlata: Extreme Flexibility
Russian-born former gymnast Zlata, 29, posed in leather and lingerie to adopt a series of poses that seem to defy every law of biology. Zlata, who now lives in Germany, is able to create astounding shapes with her body and is so flexible she can cram herself into a 50cm square box. One of her favorite acts is to bend backwards at a 90 degree angle, so the back half of her hands touch her feet and she can also peer through her own legs from behind.
Zlata's gift of flexibility was discovered when she was four years old and by six she was training as a contortionist at a circus school. She has a rare condition which makes all her tendons extremely pliable, which helps in her profession. The former gymnast now spends most of her day working out and training for shows around the world. In 2011 she set the Guinness World Record for the most beer bottles opened in a minute using only your feet.
Kim Goodman: Eyeball Protrusion
Kim Goodman is a woman who is able to pop her eyes out of her eye sockets by 12 millimeters (0.47 inches). She holds the world record for the farthest eyeball protrusion. She lives in Chicago, Illinois. She discovered her eyeball popping talent one day when she was hit on the head with a hockey mask. Her eyeballs popped out much further than usual and ever since that day she could pop them out on cue, as well as when she yawns.
She has appeared on the Late Show with David Letterman. In 2004, Goodman was included by Guinness World Records in their 50th anniversary list of top ten "feats" of all time. Kim originally had the record for being able to extend her eye balls beyond her eye sockets by 10mm. This was matched a few years by a new contender, but when Kim was re-measured she found she could now reach 12mm - breaking her own record and keeping the title.
Natalia Partyka: One Armed Table Tennis Champ
Natalia Partyka (born 27 July 1989) is a Polish table tennis player. Born without a right hand and forearm, she participates in competitions for able-bodied athletes as well as in competitions for athletes with disabilities. Partyka reached the last 32 of the London 2012 Olympic women's table tennis. Partyka began playing table tennis at the age of seven. She won her first international table tennis medal in 1999 at the disabled World Championships. At the age of 11, she competed at the 2000 Summer Paralympics in Sydney, becoming the world's youngest ever Paralympian. In 2004, she won a gold medal in the singles event and silver in the team event at the Athens Paralympics.
Partyka competed for Poland both the 2008 Summer Olympics and the 2008 Summer Paralympics in Beijing - one of only two athletes to do so, the other being Natalie du Toit in swimming. They were her third Paralympic Games, and her first Olympics. Competing in class 10 at the Beijing Paralympics, she won gold by defeating China's Fan Lei by three sets to nil. In 2008, she won a gold medal in the singles event and a silver in the team event at the Beijing Paralympics, repeating her Athens Paralympics result.
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